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What is Limit : Think higher , Perform Better.

What is Limit ?
Limit in simple can be defined as point at which something ends. Other than that, limit in more practical can be said as border, boundary that restrain one matter.

Does limit exist ?
Limit generally exist in normal circumstances, however, the "existence" of limit is arguable, since most of the limits that we encounter with are vague and ambiguous. In other words, we are unable to see the appearance of Limit, for me it is just a scale of measurement that someone set for reference purposes

Who set the limit ?
Limit is vary for person to person. This also imply that we (our-self) set the limit.

I am sure everyone of us will get pissed off at least once in our life. What make us angry and loss on control ? It is the Limit of temper.

Let us look on an example, Jason and Jame both are classmate, both of them score only 2omarks in their mathematics examination. However, Jason will get mad when his friends describe him as "dumb" whereas Jame will only angry when his friends describe him as " stupid". Both of them set their own limit of temper , whoever tries to challenge beyond their limit will get scolded definitely.

What influence on each one limit ?
1) Past experiences. Inevitably,those things you had done in past is within your limit whereas things you had not done before is beyond your limit
2) Personal Assumption. If you think you can do it , no matter how hard the task be, it can be done. Sometimes assumption also been influenced by friends advices or opinions, however, those opinions or advices should be take as reference but not to constrain our limit.
3) Rationale. Rationality sometimes give us and idea, but it doesn't mean anything. Therefore, "THINKING BIG" book is available in market to inculcate us to have more positive and big dream so that we can be a better person.

In short, we should think positive. Think higher, perform better.
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一些感觉。

最近的我好像没像以前那样了,
没有主见,没有勇气,没有干劲。
我觉得最糟糕的是我对自己的自信越来越少了。
我越来不相信自己的能力。
往往都不敢把目标看得太大,
免得自己像受了伤的小鸟
从天而降。

小时候的我,任性,失败,懒惰,
脾气不好。。 (还有很多。。。。 )
很多时候,浪费了很多父母亲的钱,
让他们伤心。 (还有很多很多。。。 )
长大后,慢慢地讨厌小时候的我,
觉得小时候如果认真点。努力点。现在就不会那么差了。
所以, 慢慢的,我已经讨厌那种失败的感觉。
在课业上。在活动上。
在任何的事情上我都怕输, 因为我不想像以前那么失败。
如我所愿的。在课外活动上, 我的努力也有少少的“业绩”,
成功的策划很多活动。得过蛮多奖的。。 (不多, 哈哈)
课业上, 也慢慢的进步。(不多。。 一点点. 哈哈)
那时候,就认识到些出生入死的死党。
可能被课外活动影响吧,渐渐的我喜欢了多人的活动 。


直到 有一件事发生。。
那件事让我领悟一个道理
“这世界靠努力,生活反而更卖力。 靠关系, 反而很容易”
从此,我再也不喜欢那些靠关系得到好处的人。
由于身边太多人都是那样的, 所以慢慢的不喜欢多人的活动了。
越来越喜欢自己一个人的世界。
慢慢的。。 晚上与凌晨就是我最喜欢的时刻。
一个人的看书,画画,听歌。
日子久了, 便开始喝咖啡提神。因为我越来越喜欢自己一个人做事了。

我的兴趣 : 读书,听歌,游泳,画画,直到摄影都是我一个人就可以做到的东西。
但是偶尔也会想起以前在活动上做策划, 与大队一起奋斗,安排,然后成功的“成就感”
但我还是不喜欢多人的活动。
因为自己想做的事我自己会把它做好, 很少我会向别人提出要求。 
同样的我也很少给朋友帮助。 
(这就是其他不懂得我的人说我的“自私”吧)
但我本身觉得,我没害到人,我这么做没啥不妥的。

时间一直在走,我也不知现在的我是什么模样了。
往往都跟着别人的意愿,
做些不喜欢的事。。 把自己弄得自己搞不懂自己了。
我希望能自己做些自己想要做的事。
做回我自己 
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sunway pyramid series 2

some xmas design
the outlook of sunway pyramid
inner design
stalls in the mall
^^
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